Behold & Share

As he watched Jesus walk by, he said, “Behold, the Lamb of God.”-John 1:36

Have you ever asked a small child how old they are? You have received a more detailed response than you ever imagined. For little kids, birthdays are a huge deal. When they are asked their age, the response is often nuanced, “I am four and three-quarters.” “I am eight years old but I will be nine in 7 months. My party is going to be at Build a Bear.”  The countdown to these milestones is of the utmost importance. 

Our 8-year-old along with two of her cousins made their First Communion this past spring. So now the countdown has begun for our 5-year-old. Each week at Mass, “am I old enough today?”… and then it continues the following week, “am I old enough today?” Each week, he thinks he will have aged three years. Nope, not today. On a recent week he grabbed my fast and held it between his hands, “Mom! I got it! You can share the holy bread WITH me.”  

What an invitation! Share this holy bread with me… I know what he wanted was for me to break off a piece and sneak it to him as he waited next to me.  He doesn’t know that each day, I need the strength and grace that this Communion offers me to nurture and care for him. Each day I am sharing pieces of that holiness with him, and I will continue to do so even after he is old enough to receive Communion directly. 

A few months ago I had the opportunity to visit the Shrine of Elizabeth Ann Seton, whose feast day we celebrate today. A widow, a mother, a convert, and then a Sister, St. Elizabeth Ann Seton established the first community for women religious in the United States and then became the first American-born Saint. Her life after her conversion was dedicated to the education and care of the poor, a legacy that is carried out by the Daughters of Charity around the world today. On our tour of the grounds, I learned that at the end of her life she asked for her bed to be placed in a small room off of the chapel in view of the Blessed Sacrament.  In her active ministry and into her state of infirmary, she knew she belonged at the foot of the cross. The call of Christ, to share His love, was clear. 

Who cries out to you, asking “will you share Christ with me”?

Published by jencoito

Jen Coito is a California native with diverse experience in parish, academic, and national ministry settings. She has a Masters in Pastoral Theology from Loyola Marymount University. She worked for the California Province of Jesuits for seven years promoting Christian Life Community on university campuses and other diverse ethnic settings. Jen has collaborated on the creation of formation materials, discernment tools, and small group processes that are being used around the country in Vietnamese, Korean, Spanish, and English. In 2013, Jen and Jesuit priest Fr. Tri Dinh co-founded Christus Ministries out of a desire to engage local young adults and form young-adult friendly parishes. Jen works for the Sisters of Notre Dame in California as the Associate Director of Mission Advancement. Jen, Jason, and their three children live in Southern California. You can read more of Jen's writings at www.jencoito.com.

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